This night’s for us

In 2016, on the eve of the Democratic National Convention, I wrote a post about my grandmother, who—born before women had the right to vote—hadn’t lived to see the first women nominated for president. That post was titled This Night’s for You, Gram.

Now in 2024, the DNC is in my city, Chicago, and we are nominating Vice President Kamala Harris for the office of president. While of course I still wish my smart and politically-minded grandmother was around to experience it, I’m dedicating this night to another smart and politically-minded woman: me.

I guess what I really should be calling myself these days is a smart, politically-minded childless cat lady.

One thing I admire about VP Harris, is that is that she controls the narrative. When creepy dudes blather on with the same old racist and misogynistic schtick, she doesn’t need to engage with it. Normally, I too will not allow smarmy politicians to define me, but in fact, it is quite accurate that I’m a childless cat lady, and—most importantly—it is certainly a great way to organize a large voting pool. Hey cat ladies, where are you at, how are we getting the vote out, and is there a sale on litter?

Posing in my pantsuit with my pussy before the election in 2016.

In 2016 women like me joined secret political groups and we had a lot of inside jokes about pantsuits. In 2024 we’re still joining groups, but the groups aren’t secret (and they’re not just women). A few weeks ago, when Vice President Harris unexpectedly became Presidential Candidate Harris, Black women immediately organized a 44,000 person Zoom and raised 1.5 million dollars. Other groups organized; gen z, dudes, comics, cat ladies, the LGBTQ community; we love to see it.

In 2016 I understood data, but I was just getting started with a specialty in using grassroots outreach to bring new audiences to the arts. Now I’m damn good at it.

Grassroots works the same in politics as it does in the arts—from person to person, organically, ground up. Listen to me: lawn signs don’t vote, memes don’t vote. People vote. Talk to people. (And give their cats a scratch behind their ears, while you’re at it.)

Now is the time to use your gifts. Everyone has gifts, everyone has interests, everyone knows people. Use this to organize your community to take action. Now until November 5, you can encourage folks to register to vote, canvas, donate, and of course, vote.

Find your people, organize. Then find other people. Work together and we’ll call that a coalition.

It took some time for me to write this because, in addition to taking frequent breaks to play with my cats, I couldn’t stop scrolling through pictures of folks pouring into Chicago for the DNC tomorrow, full of excitement about my gorgeous city and to nominate Kamala Harris.

Welcome to Chicago, friends. This night’s for us.

6 comments

  1. Helen Devries's avatar
    Helen Devries · · Reply

    The childless cat ladies I knew were unbeatable….those in their Jacobean mansion feeding their strays from Ming china in particular. I bet they would have got on with your grandma!

    I’ve been in politics since teenage…if not before as my grandparents’ house was the heart of the Labour Party’s election hub…..and was revolted by the Democrats cutting primaries in order to exclude Kennedy,

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    1. The Wife of Bath's avatar

      And here I am without Ming china—my poor felines!

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  2. Calmgrove's avatar

    Dig out that pantsuit again – brat Kamala wears hers with the air of someone in charge of her own destiny, so why not you too?!

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    1. The Wife of Bath's avatar

      Yeah I like to think of myself as the transition from Kamala brat summer to mildly unruly fall…

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  3. Jean's avatar

    I found some of the DNC evening speeches good..with some humour inserted.

    Next few months will be very interesting. Alot of hard work to get folks to vote.

    I wish the very best for U.S. in election outcome in early Nov. 2024. Whatever happens, it will be historic.

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    1. The Wife of Bath's avatar

      Thanks for the well wishes Jean. I think Michelle Obama put it best in her speech which she said we had to “Do something”.

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